akimiya:

stop thinking about it

Stop comparing where you’re at with where everyone else is. It doesn’t move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find peace. It just feeds your shame, fuels your feelings of inadequacy, and ultimately, it keeps you stuck. The reality is that there is no one correct path in life. Everyone has their own unique journey. A path that’s right for someone else won’t necessarily be a path that’s right for you. And that’s okay. Your journey isn’t right or wrong, or good or bad. It’s just different. Your life isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s because you aren’t like anyone else. You’re a person all your own with a unique set of goals, obstacles, dreams, and needs. So stop comparing, and start living. You may not have ended up where you intended to go. But trust, for once, that you have ended up where you needed to be. Trust that you are in the right place at the right time. Trust that your life is enough. Trust that you are enough.
Daniell Koepke (via stoneyxochi);

reasonrules:

hermione-ganja:

A necessary message for all the nice guys out there.

SCREAMING

i’m totally fucking using crush cook boy for cuddles and hand holding and making myself feel nice that is fucking shitty as fuck 

but i like TOLD him that i didn’t know what i wanted and that this could totally not work out at all and i’m just confused as to if i even want a relationship with him 

since i told him i’m a little bit less of an ass right? i feel so guilty because i am really not feeling it and he really really is. he’s coming on super strong too taking me stargazing and texting me good morning beautiful and that is fucking great WHY DO I NOT LIKE HIM? Why am i refusing to give this a chaaaance?

And I also really feel like he’s smoking more weed for me. he used to smoke occasionally but now he’s buying us weed to smoke together and wow now as i type that out, that’s pretty fucking cute and awesome. BUT i don’t want him to feel like he has to smoke, at all. because i know he doesn’t like being high a lot but when i’m around he’s always smoking more. and i know he’s only doing it cause i’m there. that’s not somethig i want at all. smoke if YOU want. meh.

he’s really fucking awesome and he keeps telling me he’ll wait for me because i tell him i don’t know WHAT i want and i just blah so confused in the brain

This is why it hurts the way it hurts. You have too many words in your head. There are too many ways to describe the way you feel. You will never have the luxury of a dull ache. You must suffer through the intricacy of feeling too much.
Iain Thomas  (via vanderlylegeek);
A healthy relationship is one where two independent people just make a deal that they will help make the other person the best version of themselves.
(via dylanludwig);
Woman: I'm smart
Patriarchy: Well you're probably ugly then
Woman: I'm creative
Patriarchy: You mean unattractive right?
Woman: I have all these incredible accomplishments
Patriarchy: Yeah but look how ugly you looked doing them
Woman: I have value
Patriarchy: Not if you're ugly lol
Woman: I'm conventionally-attractive & posted selfies on my blog
Patriarchy: I'm so sick of these empty-headed chicks only caring about their looks. Just because you are attractive and get attention from men doesn't mean you are special or deserve respect. Why don't you read a book or do something productive with your life you dumb slut

sinkingxdreams:

‘Everyone is trying to change your view’

chiffon-ankh:

Bless this post.

So now when you do Alt + Reblog, the reblog symbol turns green, “explodes” and then disappears.

theshelbylife:

incestuous-lesbianponies:

laurarw:

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I THOUGHT THIS WAS KIDDING SOGMLASG


HOLY SHIT

thestruttingdead:

skinny-jeans-for-beauty-queens:

genuinelylarry:

what if tattoos just randomly appeared on our skin at key points in our lives and we had to figure out what they meant for ourselves

Someone should write a book about this

#did you mean my little ponies #or

tardisity:

The oldest person alive was born on April 19, 1897, meaning that April 18th, 1897 was approximately the last time the Earth was inhabited by an entirely different set of people and if you don’t think that’s the realest shit ever then you can get right on outta town.

things are cool these days. 

real real cool :-)

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